Tuesday, December 27, 2011

Ghosts Of Christmas...

So my newly departed ex-husband seems to have only stayed around our house for a week or so, and now appears to have moved on.  I suspect that he wanted to make sure the boys were doing okay and has either crossed over, or is making a mess of his family's house.  They say that that is common with those who have passed on unexpectedly.  Either way, the pictures have stopped falling from the walls and the kids are no longer waking up and interrupting us when Tony and I try to get our snuggle on.  The house still has an uncanny chill to it, but I think I can take care of that with some good old fashioned winterizing.

My last post was about Tony's gift, or rather his off-the-list gift.  Some of you questioned what it was that I received.  That is, aside from a ghost free home and peace of mind.  Well, I'll tell ya.  After a long, car ride conversation regarding my annoyance at Tony's need to just buy stuff  for me and how 80% of the gifts become just things under the tree, I had to eat my words.  And wash them down with a giant glass of humble.  I may have even mumbled the words, You were right.

This year, every gift I got meant something.  A new bathrobe to replace the robe I have worn since I was pregnant with oldest.  New slippers because my feet are always cold.  New silverware, free of scratches from when the boys take the spoons to dig in the yard, or the butter knives to turn screws.  A digital picture frame to display the photos of all our adventures in a constant loop.  A Magic Bullet blender to replace the old blender I have had *cough, cough* for twenty years* since my freshman year of college.  There was even a gift card for the Kindle Fire my parents got me, so I could buy Elisa's book and lose myself in her journals.

So, about mid day I popped on the computer to search for accessories for the Fire.  I must say that if there's one thing I hate, it's that when something is new, the accessories cost a fortune.  And they all tend to look the same.  I found this cover by Kate Spade, and while it's cute, it doesn't have the options I wanted within the cover.  And Hello?  $69?  No thanks.  Anyway, afterwards I dozed off a bit.  I dreamt that I had a cover made of this crazy burgundy print with Hawaiian themed turtles through it. 

(Actual fabric has tie dyed swirls
 and is less pink than this.
 My photography skills are weak my friends.)
Weird I know.  What was even weirder is that when I woke up, the fabric was in my attic already.

About six months before she got sick, my grandmother had given me a bunch of fabric scraps to do something with.  Not being a quilter, and having very little in the way of projects that required scraps, I threw the bag into the attic and forgot all about it.  So there I was, on Christmas day at 10 PM going through the attic and wouldn't you know?  There was just enough fabric for a cover.

Excited, I began to cut out the pieces.  Already 11-ish , assembly would have to wait. I wrapped it all up back in the bag and left it near the couch.  When I went to bed, I had another dream.  This time, the outside cover was leather.  And again,  it was the same leather scraps I had in the attic.  My favorite coat in college, had fallen into disrepair, and I had made into a purse from it a few years back.  I had kept the scraps as something the boys may use for school projects.  And wouldn't you know, there was just enough. And, as luck would have it, the buttons matched up with the pocket flap, which I was able to turn into the clasp.

So I got to work.  Sewing and cutting, pressing and swearing.

The final result looks like this....


The wrinkles have been pressed in for twenty years, so what's left here is the just the marks.  It's a very soft deer skin, almost like a suede (Not Swede, thanks Skippy!).  The inside is where I used her fabric....


I included pockets for my cards and such.  I hate having to carry around four wallets inside my purse.  There's also room and an additional pocket in the fold for a stylus.  Damn my fat fingers!  It's not perfect, but neither am I.  And the best part is, I felt like she was here telling me how to make it.  Like it was her Christmas gift to me.  The entire project came together in less than an hour.  With only one mistake.

Seriously, that never happens.

Not to me anyway.

So there you have it. 

My Christmas gift from the beyond.

Now, if I can only get it back from Tony.

He's loving the Angry Birds.

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  1. The Angry Birds will never let go of Tony

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  2. Wonder looking. You sure are creative. Thanks for the comment on my leg. Getting a massage today and going to look for a cane... so I can get back to work.

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  3. You NEVER FAIL to amaze me !
    WHO ELSE would have dreamt it and achieved it, BUT YOU!
    PRICELESS!
    (((hugs)))Pat

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  4. The inside of that is sweet. So detailed.

    Now I had to laugh when you wrote "like a swede" - So it feels like a Swedish person? [hopefully a man, heehee] or did you mean "suede"? As in leather.

    I know what you meant and I am not playing spelling police - but the typo gave me such a laugh, I could only think "So what's a swede feel like?"

    Okay - me and my :ahem: dirty mind are off. Have a good one. And don't work too hard. :)

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  5. Gorgeous, I love it! Perhaps there's a side line there for you (Etsy shop maybe?)

    Glad the ex has moved on.

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  6. Can I put my order in now? I got one for Christmas too but my cover is no way near that cool. You are so creative!

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  7. What is it with these angry birds?
    I don't get it....

    I LOVE THE PIECE YOU MADE...

    The Hawaiian turtles are waiting for you here in Maui. If I had a big house, I would invite all of you to come for a visit...

    xo

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  8. That holder looks AWESOME!

    You are soooo sweet. Thank you for getting my book. Your comment about it made my day. And then when I read this and saw the picture of it . . . I started crying because it made me so happy. I'm really thankful to have such amazing people in my life. Isn't it neat how people from blogland can become such good friends?! :)
    Thanks again,
    E

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  9. I actually went back, thinking I'd missed a post. I didn't know you were having otherworldly experiences, but you wrote about it as if we all knew already.

    When we moved into this house, the widow who moved out had been here a full 20 years after she was widowed. And Dwight was still here. We felt him, saw him out of the corners of our eye... and every time we built a wall or tore something out, he was NOT happy.

    Finally, my husband had a talk with him one day while the rest of us were gone.

    Told him it was time to move on.

    And he left after that.

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  10. What a great story. I love your creativeness and how it includes your grandmother. That's just the best!

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  11. @Ami, i went back too, thinking i'd missed something.

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  12. Ami and ADoC - I guess forgot to mention it here. I did mention it on several blogs through comments. I have these experiences often, I just don't mention it much as then people are sure I'm crazy as opposed to maybe just thinking it. :)

    Skippy - funny, spell check did not pick that up. I have no idea what a Swede feels like, do you? :)

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  13. Wow. I'm totally jealous. I could NEVER make something like that. :( I like it... A LOT!

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  14. Wow! I wish I had yours and Elisa's sewing skills. Unfortunately I can't sew a straight stitch. That is very cool.
    I'm glad things are settling down for you guys. What a relief. You have been on my mind constantly.

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  15. I'm totally confused. Did you make it or not...like a dream? If you did make it, and you really did have dreams about it, can I put in a request. Do you mind dreaming me up a new van? I could use one. I do think you are amazing if you made that all in one hour...and also impressed you made your way into the attic. I just don't go there. At. All.

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  16. Stef, YEs I did make it. Yes, you can put in a request, but you'll have to send me your dream fabric.

    But, no. No new car. Still working on that one for myself. I'll let you know how it turns out. :)

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  17. Oh, that's so beautiful! It's like your grandmother was contacting you through your dreams and maybe was with you while you made it. Moments like that show there is so much more to the world than we can see (at least, I like to think so).

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  18. Gorgeous cover!! Don't you just love getting inspiration like that? And I totally support having dead grandma help over lingering dead scummy ex husband......

    Ah Angry Birds.....it's a good thing I forbade my husband from buying apps for his iphone or he would never get to use it cause I'd buy Angry birds instead of just replaying the same free levels when I'm super bored and he's asleep....

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